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Why Crying Will Never Help You To Get Your Boyfriend Back
Author : Cory M Findlay
Submitted : 2011-11-14 Word Count : 870 Popularity: Not Rated
Tags: how to get your boyfriend back, get him back, get your man back
Your heart is broken and naturally you want to cry your eyes out since your breakup. Surely your boyfriend doesn't have a heart of stone and seeing you crying and upset must have some sort of effect on him, right? Won't your boyfriend feel bad about making you cry and come back to you? Should you let your boyfriend know that you've been crying since he left and use that as a tool to try to get him back?
You might think that the man that once loved you so would have some feelings or be moved by your tears but the truth is that letting him see you cry is only going to work against you if you are trying to get him back using sympathy. As a matter of fact, chances are he will be repulsed by you and, although he might feel sorry for you, it isn't going to help you to get him back. He actually might not want to deal with the thought that he has hurt you and he might avoid you in the future when the time comes to actually get him back.
There are even guys that are so angry, cold and callous that they will look at you as pathetic or weak for crying about the breakup. If your boyfriend is in this state he very well might be so repulsed by your tears and he will lose respect for you while, at the same time, feeling that he must be something pretty special to bring out this kind of emotion in you. So, as you can see, you will just be helping him to feel better about himself and destroying your chances of getting him back in the end.
Even if you do manage to hit some sort of emotional hot button and he does wind up feeling bad for hurting you by leaving you and he winds up coming back, he won't be back for long. Just think about it. Once things return to normal and he doesn't feel sorry for you anymore he will wind up leaving or be looking for a reason to leave.
If you really want to get your boyfriend back he needs to come back because he loves you and because he realizes that you are an awesome human being to spend time with. The only way for you to truly get him back is to get the emotions under control and get his respect and his love back. Without that desire in his heart you will only have a temporary solution that will only lead to another breakup and the next time it might not be quite so easy to get him back.
And how do you get him to feel something for you again? The truth is that he already does love you. Emotions are flying everywhere and right now his love is buried under a bunch of useless emotions that he has heaped on there to help him to follow through with his decision to leave you. In time and by doing the right things and NOT doing the wrong things it will actually be pretty easy for you to get your boyfriend back.
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